Beauty
I was hanging out with this girl who was really nice. She seemed to have a crush on me, and everything was going just fine, when at some point I realized she was somewhat ugly. I mean, she was nice and all, but I couldn't picture her as a girlfriend. I kinda felt bad, I mean, as I couldn't dump her just by saying that, as she was really nice after all. Later, the dream would involve two other girls who'd be the same, which would just confuse me further - three ugly girls with crushes on me, and I wouldn't know how to handle any of them. Later on, I remember getting away from them for some time and entering an elevator. Here C. M. walks in and we talk. I look at her and think how she didn't look the same live as in the picture when I first met her, and wonder what I should do about her and the other girls. She talks to me, really friendly, and shows me a long, rectangular leaflet.
explora wrote 2 years 27 weeks ago
If Beauty were my dream:
Hmm. I think I'd be reminded of the times I've had to "reject" someone in one way or another (whether that be a girl, potential housemate, or whatever). In the case of a girlfriend I'd say feeling some kind of attraction is a pretty important priority. If you feel they're ugly you're not doing any service to them by pretending otherwise.
I think I would see this dream as highlighting two things. First of all a wish not to hurt anybody. And second, a realisation that I may have more to learn about how to handle my own (sometimes active) place in the process that is "rejection".
Nick